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Jun. 2001, Xene #22

What surprises you when you started dating a Japanese?



Anon, UK

Two month into a relationship, I agreed to go "picking fruit" with my girlfriend who said she knew a good place. When we arrived at the farm she headed straight for the front door where she proceeded to introduce me to her parents, who seemed to be dressed up a little too much to have been out in the field. Only after being told they had been expecting me and they sat expectantly round an exceptionally well-laden dinner table did I realize I had been the victim of a marriage plan. My subsequent display of international diplomacy should have bagged me a job at the embassy.



Nancy, USA

When I first went to a soba restaurant with my boyfriend he started to make awful noise eating soba. Everybody there was making so much noise that I thought I should adapt to the Japanese custom and made as mush noise as I could. I made a pretty good noise. It was a lot of fun



Todd, UK
Unfamiliar with Japanese girls gdating techniquesh, I put my gdrunkenh date in to a taxi and gave the driver her address, only to receive a phone call an hour later from perfectly sober girl saying I was gno use to anyone!h


Mark, USA
Every time my girlfriend laughed, she put her hand over her mouth. I thought she had a cavity or something. It turned out that she had a piece of seaweed between her teeth. I married her after that.



Helen, Canada
On my first date with my now fiance, he asked me to marry him. I had no plans to get married, and didnft expect that our relationship would last so I said that we could think about it later. I wanted a few more month before I said gyesh. Generally in Canada we date for a few months or years before we think of marriage!



Angel, USA

I have had many surprisesc Well, instead of telling my stories, Ifd like to give a few comments to Japanese men who want to have a good relationship with a foreign woman. Never say gI love youh on a first date. It was scary! Two weeks is too long to wait before calling after a woman gives you her number. And donft wait until late in the evening to see what she is doing. Make plans. She will be happier. There are some really cool things about Japanese men thoughc They usually try to look nice on a date and always bring you presents, and you can probably wear his clothes and may even want to!




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